Think Big Picture

Learning the social arts exposes one to a seemingly endless barrage of concepts, techniques and paradigms.  There’s endless discussion on opening, building attraction, comfort, and seduction.  There’s openers, stacks, negs, push-pull, cocky/funny, pebbles, projections, kino, NLP, microloops, IOIs, IODs, shit tests, social proof, alpha behavior, bitch shields and LMR.  It’s easy to get lost in this and forget what all of this stuff is ultimately designed to do.  It’s easy to forget, in the simplest terms, what we’re learning to do: [Read more...]

The Six Elements of a Strong Dating Profile

For a while now I’ve been working on finding the essential elements that you must include in an online profile. After reading hundreds of books on psychology, philosophy and attraction, I’ve come up with these six fundamentals. I strongly believe they need to be conveyed properly if you’re going to get a date. You should be able to look at your profile and see if they’re there. They’re in no particular order.

1.Mystery/Mystique

A woman who reads your profile will have to have a STRONG desire to know more about you. That means you’ll have to convey enough to get her interested, but not so much that she can guess who you are. It’s a delicate balance and maybe the most difficult to do well. If she opens you by asking questions, you know you’ve done it right.

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