I’m writing this for you… the guy who has been in the game for a little while now, who has learned the ability to control frames a bit. You have read various material on how to be alpha, and you think you know what it means to be a leader… an alpha male.

We all know there are two ways to come at game. You can pursue a natural approach, or you can try to pursue a routine-based method. Either way, the game rests on your ability to control frames. I believe the difference between natural game and non-natural game is the way you handle frames. To say it a different way: the paradigm you have about frames will determine whether you will become a ‘natural’ or you flounder in a non-natural state throughout your game career.

Seduction. That’s the name of the game, right? Well, the word actually comes from a Latin word meaning ‘to lead astray’.  I challenge you to think about that. If your goal is to lead people astray in your interactions, what does that say about your faith in yourself? As if getting a girl to sleep with you is bad for her? A true natural, on the other hand, sees it as completely normal and healthy for a girl to want to sleep with him. He doesn’t try to lead her astray; rather, he lets her decide, and she normally decides in his favor. Hence why naturals don’t get LMR. [Read more...]