1. Don’t be too obsessive. If the girl doesn’t call, they might have been too busy to answer. Leaving 5 voice mails just makes you appear desperate.

2. Don’t move too quickly. It could cause a pipi le pew situation (you persue and the other runs away as fast as they can).

3. Don’t talk too much about your ex’s. And if you do, don’t say anything disparaging. Treat it as a new relationship so empty your luggage at the door.

4. Be courteous. Please and thank you go a long way.

5. Be flexible. If you have to cancel, reschedule unless you really didn’t want to go out with the girl to begin with.

6. Guys, I hate to say it, but bring cash and/or plastic to the date. If the woman wants to go dutch great, but expect to pay on the first date atleast.

7. Do open her doors. Hold out your hand if you have a really big car/truck and if she has a skirt and heels, etc. Little things go a long way.

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