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		<title>The Attraction Vault Presents: The Global Pickup Conference DC 2012</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[“Are You Ready To Learn The Secrets Of The Most Powerful Dating &#38; Pick-Up Instructors In The World?” I’m CrazyMike and have recently been talking with Speer from SpeerMethod.com, and we are bringing last years incredible Global Pickup Conference back to DC for the second year. If you are ready to “raise the bar” with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="center"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"><strong>“Are You Ready To Learn The Secrets<br />
Of The Most Powerful Dating &amp; Pick-Up<br />
</strong></span><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong>Instructors In The World?”</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">I’m CrazyMike and have recently been talking with Speer from SpeerMethod.com, and we are bringing last years incredible Global Pickup Conference back to DC for the second year. If you are ready to “raise the bar” with women in your life, then you are invited to attend the&#8230;</span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="center"><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong>The Global Pickup Conference, Washington DC<br />
During The Weekend Of March 23rd &#8211; 25th, 2012</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="center"><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #ff0000;"><strong><span style="font-size: large;">“Prepare for Affection from EVERY direction!”</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="left"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">If this sounds like hype, I apologize… but I am more than excited after seeing what awesome quaality events speer has brought in the past.  Consistently delivering high ammounts of value.</span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">We have brought together a world-class faculty of “Adventure Advisors” to open your doors of abundance with sexual satisfaction and fulfillment with women. After 7 years<em>, according to speer<strong>, the greatest lesson he&#8217;s learned is that</strong></em>…</span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="center"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;">The BEST Way To Become Better With Women is;<br />
LEARN the TRUTH about ATTRACTION, THEN&#8230;<br />
get OUT of the classroom, GO OUT, and LEARN BY DOING.</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">So, here’s what we’ve got for you:<br />
We Bring You the BEST Guru’s from around the world!</span></p>
<p style="font-size: medium; text-align: center;"><a href="http://theattractionvaultpresentsgpcdc2012.eventbrite.com/"><span style="font-family: Verdana; background-color: #ffff00; color: #ff0000; font-size: large;">GET YOUR TICKETS BEFORE THEY INCREASE IN COST, EVERY TWO WEEKS THE PRICE INCREASES!  DON&#8217;T MISS OUT ON AN INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCE, AT AN INCREDIBLE PRICE- GET YOUR TICKET EARLY!</span></a></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://theattractionvaultpresentsgpcdc2012.eventbrite.com/">RESERVE YOUR SPOT HERE</a></strong></p>
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</span><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/speer.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Speer</strong></span><br />
Master of the PUA Lifestyle. Rated #1 in The World 2011 &amp; Best PUA LifeStyle Award for Past 5 years.</span><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.kingsofpickup.com/">www.kingsofpickup.com</a></span><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><br />
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Global NLP and Self-Empowerment Expert for a Truly Fulfilling Social, Sex, and Love Life!</span><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.kingsofpickup.com/" target="_blank">www.kingsofpickup.com</a></span><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><br />
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The top pickup artist in the world and was voted #1 Pickup Artist for 2008.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.bradp.com/" target="_blank">www.bradp.com</a></span></p>
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<p><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/rossjefferies.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Ross Jeffries</strong></span><br />
The Founder And Still The Leading Innovator Of The Seduction Community.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For More Info <a href="http://www.seduction.com/">www.seduction.com</a></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/davidw.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>David Wygant</strong></span><br />
The inspiration for the movie &#8220;Hitch&#8221;. Voted the most natural guru out there.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For More Info <a href="http://davidwygant.com/">www.davidwygant.com</a></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><span style="color: #0000cc;"><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/ericaawakening.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="color: #ff0000;">Erika Awakening</span></span></strong><br />
Holistic Life Coach who will empower you in all areas of your life: dating, and self-esteem.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For More Info <a href="http://www.erikaawakening.com/">www.erikaawakening.com</a></span></p>
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<p><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/james.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Brother James </strong></span><br />
His philosophy revolves around getting back to the basics. simplify the process!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.ProfessionalPickup.com/">www.professionalpickup.com</a></span></p>
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<p><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/John%20Keegan.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>John Keegan </strong></span><br />
John&#8217;s vision of a life that transcends social barriers and personal boundaries.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.theawakenedlifestyle.com/">www.theawakenedlifestyle.com</a></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #ff0000;"><strong>Sasha Daygame</strong></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br />
Mystery&#8217;s first wing and the best day gamer in the world. He is also an authorty on pickup comedy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For More Info <a href="http://www.sashapua.com/">www.sashapua.com</a></span></p>
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<p><span style="color: #0000cc; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/ChristianH.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="color: #ff0000;">Hydro</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #000000;">The true sources for all of web, and text game. He is a true master of text based game.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For More Info <a href="http://kingsofpickup.com/">www.kingsofpickup.com</a></span></p>
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<p><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/maven.jpg" alt="" width="101" height="93" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Maven</strong> </span><br />
Has helped hundreds of guys through his transformation story and coaching.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.speermethod.com/">www.speermethod.com</a></span></p>
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<p><img src="http://www.globalpickupconference.com/images/mike.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" align="left" /><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Michael Hurst</span><span style="color: #ff0000;"><br />
</span></strong>Author of “Become That Guy” which is a best selling book about dating and self-development.</span></p>
<p align="left"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">For More Info <a href="http://www.becomethatguy.com/">www.becomethatguy.com</a></span></p>
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<p><a href="http://theattractionvaultpresentsgpcdc2012.eventbrite.com/"><span style="background-color: #ffff00; color: #000000; font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Verdana; background-color: #ffff00; color: #ff0000; font-size: large;">GET YOUR TICKETS BEFORE THEY INCREASE IN COST, EVERY TWO WEEKS THE PRICE INCREASES!  DON&#8217;T MISS OUT ON AN INCREDIBLE EXPERIENCE, AT AN INCREDIBLE PRICE- GET YOUR TICKET EARLY!</span></span> </a></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;"> What&#8217;s included in your ticket:</span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;"> When you come to the Global Pickup Conference, you will get the best combination of multi-mentor instruction, you will get one day of instruction, in the field, with the guru’s!</span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;" align="center"><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #ff0000;"><strong>These are the top pick up artists and dating coachs from America, Europe, and Asia!</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">You will be learning from PUA’s featured in Playboy, Men’s Health, Hustler, and other mainstream media.</span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong><span style="font-family: Verdana;">Your Ticket to the Conference Includes:</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Times; font-size: medium;"><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">• 2 Days Of In Class Training<br />
• Train a Full Day Infield with the “Faculty”<br />
• A 100 Page Routine Manual <em>(Worth Over $100)</em><br />
• Participate in the Private VIP Forum<br />
• Viewing access to the VIP Video Vault<em> (with Over 10 Hours of Secret Camera Training Footage From the Field (Worth Over $300)</em><br />
• Latest breakthroughs from my Free Podcast<br />
• You’ll get a Washington DC Guide, with all the “Hot Spots” to meet the ladys<br />
• A FREE Raffle Ticket, where you’ll get a chance to win thousands of dollars of quality products, services &amp; training throughout the conference.<br />
• We’ll help you find Discounts on Hotels &amp; Food<br />
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<p><span style="background-color: #ffff00; color: #000000; font-size: large;">• And Much More&#8230;</span></p>
<p><a href="http://theattractionvaultpresentsgpcdc2012.eventbrite.com/"><span style="background-color: #ffff00; color: #000000; font-size: large;"><strong><span style="background-color: #ffff00; color: #000000; font-size: large;">Don&#8217;t Miss Out on this Special Offer for the Biggest DC Event of The Year.  </span><span style="background-color: #ffff00; color: #000000; font-size: large;">This is an experience that will improve your life, FOREVER! Sign up NOW, before its too late.  See you there!</span></strong></span></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 11:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learning the social arts exposes one to a seemingly endless barrage of concepts, techniques and paradigms.  There’s endless discussion on opening, building attraction, comfort, and seduction.  There’s openers, stacks, negs, push-pull, cocky/funny, pebbles, projections, kino, NLP, microloops, IOIs, IODs, shit tests, social proof, alpha behavior, bitch shields and LMR.  It’s easy to get lost in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning the social arts exposes one to a seemingly endless barrage of concepts, techniques and paradigms.  There’s endless discussion on opening, building attraction, comfort, and seduction.  There’s openers, stacks, negs, push-pull, cocky/funny, pebbles, projections, kino, NLP, microloops, IOIs, IODs, shit tests, social proof, alpha behavior, bitch shields and LMR.  It’s easy to get lost in this and forget what all of this stuff is ultimately designed to do.  It’s easy to forget, in the simplest terms, what we’re learning to do:<span id="more-220"></span></p>
<p>We’re learning to present ourselves as attractive and desirable men.</p>
<p>Maybe you’ve learned some incredible skills and can build attraction out of thin air.  If that attractive person that you’ve learned to project is merely a facade, then the attraction isn’t real.  And when she finds out it isn’t real, the attraction will be gone, and for good reason.  What you’ve been projecting is not genuine.</p>
<p>The way to avoid this is to think big picture.  Have a life that isn’t entirely about pickup (I’ll write more about the distinction between the “pickup you” and the “non-pickup you” in the future; the answer is not what you might think).  Have friends, hobbies, a career.  Have girls in your life that are strictly platonic.  Have something in your life that you’re passionate about.  You don’t have to have every aspect of your life together at the moment, but you need to have a vision for your life and display the qualities necessary to make it believable you’ll be able to achieve that vision.</p>
<p>And do these things not just so you’ll have a lifestyle that’s attractive to women, but so that you’ll be a more complete, more rewarded, more fulfilled person.  The fact that this will bring more women into your life will be a bonus.  Regardless of the type of relationship you want to have, women want to know that the man they’re with is of high value.  Yes, that means even if they’re not interested in a long term relationship, they still want to know they’re with someone who’s worthwhile, genuine, and has their life together.  I’m not speaking theoretically. I’ve talked to enough women to know this is true.  I’ve talked with a number of girls who have walked out on “just sex” arrangements with guys because the guy didn’t have his life together.</p>
<p>How do you know if you’re thinking big picture?  Ask yourself this question.  Can you talk for hours with other PUAs about pickup, but find you run out of things to say in set?  If the answer is yes, then you’re not thinking big picture.  You don’t need more material, you don’t need to work on your “conversation game.”  You need to develop the kind of life that will enrich you with experiences that you can draw upon.  If you genuinely are an interesting and attractive person, then all you’ll need to learn is how to convey that.  And that will make your game much more solid.</p>
<p>~ Magellan</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 14:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am hater of excuses.  I hate them with a passion.  And I think you should hate them too.  They inhibit us from expressing ourselves.   They inhibit us from taking a chance.  They keep us from seeking opportunities.  They keep us from our fullest potential. Let’s take the top ten excuses for not approaching women [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am hater of excuses.  I hate them with a passion.  And I think you should hate them too.  They inhibit us from expressing ourselves.   They inhibit us from taking a chance.  They keep us from seeking opportunities.  They keep us from our fullest potential.</p>
<p>Let’s take the top ten excuses for not approaching women off the table, right here, right now, and vow never, ever to utter these words again. </p>
<p><span id="more-184"></span> <strong>#10 I can’t hear too well in loud venues like ____.</strong></p>
<p>Irrelevant.  I can’t hear a damn thing either!  I can assure this one has never kept me from going to a party, or checking out a new club or bar.  There are people that are paid to design entertaining environments for you and your friends for a bit of time, to lose some of your inhibitions and have some fun.  This excuse is rarely truly too loud, and more about the fear of the unknown.  </p>
<p><strong>#9 She looks like _____.</strong></p>
<p>This one usually comes with an endless litany of inappropriate trailing comments.  Just because she looks a certain way, doesn’t mean that she is that way.  And there is only one way to find out and that is if you walk up and say hello.   </p>
<p><strong>#8 I’m waiting until I _____.</strong></p>
<p>Finish my degree?  Get that raise?  Buy that car?  Find myself?  Stop waiting.  This is not about an endpoint, a task, or a milestone, this about a process called enjoying life as you live it.  When are you going to do something about it?  If the answer to that is anything other than right now, I don’t want to hear it.</p>
<p><strong>#7 This isn’t my scene.</strong></p>
<p>Sure, not all scenes are created equal.  But here we are, so now what?  The fact is, most people don’t ever really feel in their comfort zone 100% of the time.  And that’s a great thing.  If we all only did what was 100% comfortable, we would all probably die of boredom. </p>
<p>The secret to all success is very simple, get comfortable being uncomfortable.</p>
<p><strong>#6 I need my _____.</strong></p>
<p>This one is related to #8 and even more painful to hear.  This usually comes from a “prepared” guy with the exception that whatever it is that he needs, he apparently forgot to bring it with him this time.  It could be his list of routines, his book on NLP weasel phrases, or some kind lucky charm.  It could be that he forgot to get a haircut or his amazing natural wingman is out of town.   Whatever it is the problem starts and ends with “I need.”</p>
<p>Stop needing things and you’ll learn to live more freely.</p>
<p><strong> </strong><strong>#5 I’m not in a good state.</strong></p>
<p>Emotions drive us all, but as a man it means that you have the innate (and largely maligned) skill of being able acutely&#8230; ignore them.  At least until a more suitable time to curl up your favorite issue of Oprah. </p>
<p>Buck up and get your game face on.  Whatever you do just remember one thing, no one wants to hear you complain, especially in the form of an excuse.</p>
<p><strong>#4 I’m tired.</strong></p>
<p>What did I say about #5? </p>
<p>Sure, sometimes we need rest and rejuvenation, and that’s what bedtime is for.  Not eating right?  Relying on chemicals to get you a boost of energy?  The perhaps what you really need to do is re-evaluate some of those lifestyle choices. </p>
<p>You need sleep.  You need exercise.  You need a healthy diet.  Probably the only things you’ll ever really need. </p>
<p><strong>#3 That must be her _____.</strong></p>
<p>Fill in the blank with one of these favorites: boyfriend, husband, father, etc. only problem is, if you’ve never actually asked her, how can you possibly know from just looking them across the bar?   Sure, I guess if she’s making out with the guy I suppose we can rule out her father.  But can you never really know until you ask, “how do you guys know each other?”</p>
<p><strong>#2 She’s not attractive enough, not really my type.</strong></p>
<p>You mean the Megan Fox look-a-like?  Yeah buddy, and I still believe in Santa.  This is one of the most overused excuses.  Sure, I’ll give you a free pass the first time.  But if you keep pointing out all the ones that aren’t your type, at some point we’ll start to wonder if your type is simply not the opposite sex.</p>
<p><strong>#1 I can’t think of anything to say.</strong></p>
<p>This is the most common excuse I hear above all the rest.  And this is the excuse totally based on nothing more than pure fear.  You in fact can think of all kinds of things to say and it doesn’t even matter what you say when it’s all about how you say it that matters far, far more.</p>
<p>Fortunately this is the easiest of all the excuses to overcome.  The trick is to know that it’s ok to be afraid.  Believe it or not, it’s actually better when you are.  That’s what makes it a challenge.  That’s what makes it a worthwhile effort.   And guess what, everyone is also a little afraid, including the Megan Fox look-a-like.  So let’s just agree that we are all a little afraid and the only question that really matters is&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;what are you going to do about it?</p>
<p>-Deline</p>
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