Real love is the love that sometimes arises after sensual pleasure: if it does, it is immortal; the other kind inevitably goes stale, for it lies in mere fantasy – Giacomo Casanova

Yes, it can. Although if you were to ask most men and women if this is possible they would say no. However I have asked many married couples how their relationships started and in a moment of candor (and the guise of doing research for this book) many of them did say it turned sexual either the first night or within the first few times they saw each other. Here are a few insights from some of my experiences where sex on the first night ended up turning into a relationship that lasted 6 months or longer. My experience seems to be someone rare in that ALL of my longer term relationships over a span of 12 years started with sex on the first night. How is this possible? [Read more...]