Recently, I’ve been spending time thinking and speaking about taking action.  As a consultant, my day job requires that I guide clients into take bold, decisive action with their businesses.  If you are a small business, your number one focus with marketing is to get noticed and most of the time that means taking bold moves that may be uncomfortable.  At night, I guide my clients at Professional Pickup and help those that I can at The Attraction Vault forums to take decisive action, and get noticed. 

The principles are all the same. 

We live in a world full of choices.   Too many choices and never enough time to scrutinize them all.  Our choices, whether this product or that service, this friend or another, this mate or that one, we all are searching or hoping to make the right choice at the right time. 

Unfortunately, there is never enough time to meet them all.  A world with overwhelming options, our number one choice we (men and women) all make is to simply judge quickly, and ignore those that don’t match our initial impressions. 

Women (especially very attractive women) will always have number of choices.  To sit around and wait for the right one at the right time to talk to is simply to expect nothing to happen.  Why should she talk to you?  You’re just sitting there, ruminating over your drink, watching the game, maybe complaining to your friends about work or arguing over who’s right about something irrelevant.  Guess what?  That’s what every other guy, in every bar in the world does.  There’s nothing remotely interesting or intriguing about that.

Sorry fellas, but that’s how it is.

In a sea of options, what are you going to bring to the table?  The resume doesn’t count, no one reads those in a bar.  Do you have an expensive car?   Good for you, that’s quite a status symbol but it’s sitting in an overpriced parking lot, how’s that going to get her attention?  

“You can’t judge a book by it’s cover, Deline.”  No, of course you can’t, but no one can judge something they didn’t even notice to begin with.  Most of the time, no one is judging us, because most of the time, no one is paying attention.

The single most attractive thing you can do to standout in a sea of guys that don’t get it is to walk over and say, “Hi, my name is…”  because THAT doesn’t happen as often as you think it does. 

That’s taking action.

Deline

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