I’ve noticed that many guys think that women can’t be pick-up artists, or at least that we can’t call ourselves PUA because all we need to do is to tell guys we want sex and that’s it. It may come as a shocking fact BUT it certainly isn’t the case. Even the super hot sexy chicks don’t always manage to pick-up guys successfully, even when they are pretty much saying “I want to fuck you now!”

I am always surprised to hear guys make such statements because a lot of men want to pursue women, and not have women pursue them. For a lot of guys women that come on to them strongly or directly seem desperate, so they decide it’s best NOT to tap into that. Many guys also have problems with allowing women to pick them up because it’s not Alpha, they are not going to let the woman pick them up because after all “I am the man and I want to pursue her” so that is a lost game. Then again there are plenty of guys out there too that love letting women pursue them, and even find it sexy. So I am certainly not trying to put all men under one hat.

Amazingly enough, not all men are horny all the time. Not all guys want to get laid, want to be picked up, in the mood for flirt etc all the time. It is certainly less common that men are “victims” of too much attention from the opposite sex to the point they just get annoyed, but that doesn’t mean that it hasn’t happened to guys. [Read more...]